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The importance of a diagnosis

Monday, May 16, 2016 15 Comments

Name it to Tame it
"Label Stigma" is very OLD thinking

© Madelyn Griffith-Haynie, CTP, CMC, ACT, MCC, SCAC
May is National Mental Health Awareness Month

Will this NEVER die?

Do we "label" eyes brown, green or blue?  Would the color of anybody's eyes change simply because we don't put a name to that color for fear of subjecting them to preconceived notions about eyes (or color)?

If some narrow-minded person has a prejudice against people with light eyes, does identifying the color of those eyes as "blue" make the slightest difference what-so-ever?

How about height and weight "labels?"

SURELY nobody really believes that as long as we don't define size by measurement we can pretend everybody is exactly the same — even though we can easily see that they aren't.

  • Is there some evolutionary advantage to pretending that identifying certain characteristics specifically isn't relevant – or important?
  • Does it really change anybody's self-identity or position in the universe to find out exactly how tall they are?
  • Does it change how we think about our role in the world to know how much we weigh?

And yet . . .

Labelling theory, prominent during the 1960s and 70s, with some modified versions still currently popular, has long asserted the exact opposite.

It postulates that, once "labeled," individuals are stripped of their old identities as new ones are ascribed to them — and that the process usually leads to internalizing this new identity and social status, taking on some kind of assigned role with its associated set of role expectations.

And society seems to like to go along with this BS!!!

When I look around, the most comprehensive internalization I see is the result of the self-identification with STIGMA.

Out of the fear of having their children "labelled" with a mental illness, too many parents avoid taking their kids for diagnosis and treatment – because they don't want their children to have to suffer the stigma of a diagnosis.

Out of that same fear, many otherwise sensible adults – who would certainly go for treatment if what they suspected was wrong with them were physical – are leading limp-along lives because they refuse to accept diagnosis and treatment for anything that concerns their mental health.  Few realize that they've actually internalized the very stigma they think they are avoiding.

MY point of view

As I see it, the reticence to accept mental health "labels" for fear of pigeon-holing or stereotyping allows society as a whole to remain in serious denial about the crying need to stand up and be counted, joining together to sling a few other labels that desperately need to be slung – like intolerant, bigoted, small-minded, parochial and provincial, to name just a few.

And then there's the label that is my personal favorite to describe a particular kind of tool I'd like to call a spade: BULLY!

I'm calling out mental health stigma for what it is:

(unless, of course, you want to label it cowardice)

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Isn't it TIME we ended mental health stigma?

Nearly 44 million American adults, along with millions of children, struggle with "mental health" conditions each year, ranging from anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, ASD, OCD, PTSD, TBI to ADD/EFD and more.

According to NAMI (the National Alliance on Mental Health), nearly 1 in 5 adults in the United States have experienced impaired mental health in the last year alone, and 21% of all prisoners have a recent history of a mental health condition.

And I'll bet you a year's free coaching that those statistics represent only the tip of the mental health iceberg.

Yes, as President Obama said in his inspiring 2016 Mental Health Awareness Proclamation, "we have made progress expanding mental health coverage and elevating the conversation about mental health."  Still, too many people with mental illnesses suffer in silence rather than get the help they need.

  • A great many of the remaining individuals afflicted will never seek help because of embarrassment and fear of judgement.
  • Many of those who do seek diagnosis and treatment often keep their condition a well-guarded secret because of the very real fear of negatively impacting the impression of their ability to perform well at a job.
  • Still others will seek out diagnosis but will be afraid to avail themselves of pharmaceutical treatment because of the stigma around "taking the easy way out" by popping a pill!

It seems to me that mental health STIGMA has been allowed to run rampant!

People suffering from even common mental health diagnoses have been put in a position of shame because of their supposed mental "shortcomings" — and every single person who passes on the stigma or fails to call it out as bad, wrong and awful when they witness it has put them there.

  • A person doesn't change who they are simply because they've sought out and accepted a diagnosis that explains some of their challenges . . .

at least not any more than distinguishing that I am someone with brown eyes, a height of five feet, eight inches, and a weight of one hundred and thirty-five pounds means I suddenly must self-identify with a particular group of other 5'8, 135 pound, brown-eyed women.

  • Nor do those distinguishing characteristics necessarily say anything else about the members of my particular group.  We might have practically everything in common or nothing at ALL in common otherwise.
  • The ONLY thing changed by diagnosis is that an individual is finally eligible to begin the process of obtaining effective treatment for whatever it is that is making their life more difficult than it would be otherwise.

When you think about it that way, doesn't the stigma around the mental health "distinctions" seem outrageously silly?  Because that's ALL a diagnosis really is — a distinction that helps us separate the screws from the nails so that we can reach for the right tool in the box.

Let's ALL stop being silly – and band together to END mental health stigma. NOW!

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